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[KaralectricLoyal Member]

I love this new forum because it's TRULY a safe place! 🧡 so rare anyone on the web! THANK YOU, JADE FOR MAKING THIS HAPPEN!

That said, I want some thoughts from our small membership so far.... especially Jade since this forum was her brain child.... sometimes I think, oh I should invite more people into this thing! But...... I also don't want to jeopardize this safe place and I'm like no let's keep it small and intimate and NO DRAMA. It's so hard to know who to trust and right now for me that is such a small circle.

What are everyone else's thoughts about this?

[PultostLoyal Member]

I think it's a good idea, but we should probably stick to people we know.

[BJadeAdmin]

Yeah i need boys I've got a boys section and no one in it.

Anita's right with sticking to people we know

[KaralectricLoyal Member]

I think it's a good idea, but we should probably stick to people we know.

Yeah i need boys I've got a boys section and no one in it.

Anita's right with sticking to people we know

Yes, this is mostly where I come down on it too.

Are there any boys in your circle of trust, Jade? tbh i don't interact with a lot of them outside of the regular forum (like PM)

[GuestGuest]

The only guy I’ve talked to in PM that I actually trust is Chris. However, I don’t know if he would share this place with the wrong people

All it takes is for one person to be fooled by another person with multiple or pervy accounts they think is their friend….and this place will be flooded with sketchy people and fakes. Jade can probably tell you that there are a couple of people responsible for hundreds of fake users on TH. It was obvious we had guys pretending to be girls in the Girls Section there too

As much as I want to invite more people, it’s got the possibility of turning very bad, very quickly

[BJadeAdmin]

I don't really talk to anyone much, there are a couple of boys I think are nice. But like Cayce says, they might talk to other boys that aren't so good

I really don't know most of the time who to trust

[PultostLoyal Member]

The only guy I’ve talked to in PM that I actually trust is Chris. However, I don’t know if he would share this place with the wrong people

All it takes is for one person to be fooled by another person with multiple or pervy accounts they think is their friend….and this place will be flooded with sketchy people and fakes. Jade can probably tell you that there are a couple of people responsible for hundreds of fake users on TH. It was obvious we had guys pretending to be girls in the Girls Section there too

As much as I want to invite more people, it’s got the possibility of turning very bad, very quickly

I don't really talk to anyone much, there are a couple of boys I think are nice. But like Cayce says, they might talk to other boys that aren't so good

I really don't know most of the time who to trust

I appreciate your concern, there's a risk that they might invite the wrong people, unfortunately. While on the other hand, 7 people isn't much. I'd say is a risk worth taking, and maybe urge those who get invited not to pass it on to anyone no matter who until they're "greenlit", so to speak. I'm just thinking out loud now (I consider making a t-shirt with that phrase xD).

[CaliFionaMember]

I think if there's ever anyone we feel like inviting, we should put it to a vote? or something like that?

[PultostLoyal Member]

I think if there's ever anyone we feel like inviting, we should put it to a vote?  or something like that?

That could work.

[BarbaraNew Member]

I think Fiona has the best idea

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